The Myers Briggs Personality Type Inventory is an inventory that will provide you with a quick insight into your personality style.
It can be used effectively in a relationships at home, work or in general relationships. It is very non threatenting, readable and easy to interpret.
MYERS BRIGGS WEB PAGES
http://www.humanmetrics.com/index.htm#intro (Take the inventory)
http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/JTypes3.asp
http://typelogic.com/infj.html
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